Do You Want His love forever?

Many wives want their husbands to love them forever, but are not willing to submit to them. Submission is the action of accepting or yielding to a superior force or to the will or authority of another person. In actuality, husbands are not intrinsically superior to their wives or greater than them. However, God has made the husband to be the head of his wife. God is a God of plan, purpose, order, and design and He put the husband to head his wife. The book of Ephesians touches on this. See:

Eph. 5:22-24 (NKJV)

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Wives, submit to your own husband, as to the Lord. For the husband Is the head of the wife, as also Christ is the head of the church, and He is Saviour of the body. Therefore, Just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.

This scripture makes us know that just as Christ is the head of the church and the church submitted itself to Christ, in like manner, the husband is the head of the wife and the wife should submit herself to him. As a woman, if you want your husband to love you forever, you need to submit yourself to him. To submit yourself to your husband is to respect him in all things. Apart from submission, women often shift their attention from their husband when they begin to have children and stop accepting physical advances. Many women also deprive their husbands sex as a way to get back at them due to an altercation or misunderstanding. I once counseled a man who told me his wife had denied him sex for more than a year. Another man told me that his wife denied him sex till the point where he began to go to brothels to sleep with harlots. Woman, be wise. Never use deprivation of sex as a tool to punish or torture your husband. Don’t send your husband to the sex market. Doing any of these things can cause a marriage to crash. You need to be wise as a godly wife. The Bible says "the wise woman builds her house, but the foolish pulls it down with her hands (Prov. 14:1 NKJV). Along with this, here are things to do to make your husband love you forever.

Things That Would Make Your Husband Love You Forever

1. Pray for him daily.
2. Never compare your husband with other men; he's a unique man.
3. Submit yourself completely to him.
4. Always cook delicious food for him.
5. Don't deny your husband sex. It is a torture. It can make him go to the sex market.
6. Don't report the faults of your husband to members of your extended family or friends. Strive to resolve issues together through conversation.
7. Don't shift all your attention from your husband to your children.
8. Always make yourself attractive to your husband. Men like to see good things.
9. Don't make your husband feel like a sex addict. You can also ask him for sex.
10. Give him maximum support to help him succeed in life.
11. Learn to forgive when he makes mistakes.
12. Respect your husband both in private and in public.
13. Avoid toxic friends or any negative influence that can instigate you against your husband.
14. Have good financial plans with your husband and let him know your financial status.
15. Always strive to keep a clean house.
16. Always try to see things from his own point of view.
17. Surprising him with gifts once in a while.
18. Correct your husband in love.
19. Create time to pray and study the Bible with him and children.
20. Love and respect members of his extended family.
21. Encourage him whenever he's discouraged.
22. Ask him what he likes about you and what he doesn't like about you. You Improve what he likes about you and adjust what he doesn't like about you.
23. Don't always nag or complain about him. Tell him the problem and resolve it.
24. Don't be harsh to your husband even when you are pregnant.
25. Don't always check your husband's phone to know the number of women that often call him. Let your marriage be built on trust. Always trust each other.
26. Tell him you are sorry when you offend him.
27. Always appreciate him for his support for you and your children.
28. Don't be a verbal aggressive person to him and your children.
29. Be wise and be frugal in your spending.
30. Abstain from anything that gives you sexual gratification other than your husband.